As I stepped out of the shower one day in June, I looked down at my engagement ring as I often do every day. This time the view was shocking instead of full of lovely memories of my wedding day. I saw empty prongs with a missing center diamond!
The next few minutes were spent saying “No, No, No” and a
frantic search around the tub, the drain and floor of the bathroom. No diamond
in sight. My heart was sinking and my stomach was tightening. I had lost my
diamond from my ring. Needless to say, not much got done for work this day.
After searching all the floors of my home and the dismantling of the shower
drain with no results, I made the dreaded phone call to my husband. With tears
streaming down my face, my husband, being the calm loving man he is, assured me
that we would get it fixed, repaired, whatever it takes. He called our jeweler
and made an appointment for the following Monday to have the broken prongs
looked at. Two of the four prongs had broken off at the top.
The rest of my day was spent scouring the house, the
furniture, our bed, sinks, everywhere for the missing stone. I knew it was
somewhere in the house because I looked at it the previous night before going
to bed. Later when my husband got home from work he went under the house and
cleaned out the P Trap in hopes the stone would be found there. Ladies you do not want to have to do this. It
is beyond icky! Still no diamond found! The
only good thing about this ugly activity was I knew then and there that my
husband would do anything for me.
That night I went through the house one more time with a
bright flashlight and all the lights in the house off….searching the floors and
rugs. As I went through the half bath down the hall with my flashlight, I was
feeling I would never sleep this night. Searching around the back of the toilet
and toilet topper I saw a little glint. Could it be? In the cabinet over the
toilet on the bottom shelf was a small round shiny object: MY
DIAMOND! Yes! Yes! Yes! Happy tears and running through the house yelling “I found it!
I found it!” One of my luckiest and happiest moments!
I was lucky that my center stone did not dislodge outside of
my house. Don’t let this potential loss happen to you. Here are some steps to
preventing this very upsetting experience.
1.
Twice a
year inspections - My jeweler warranties the integrity of the ring if you
bring it in for twice a year inspections. Add this to your reminders on your calendar so you do not forget to schedule
this inspection. They will check your ring for wear and tear, for the integrity
of the prongs and to check if the stone is still in the setting properly. At
this same time you can usually get your ring cleaned professionally. It will
sparkle like new!
2.
Regular
cleaning at home – Clean your ring at home monthly. It depends on the type of stone which cleaner
you should use, if any. Ask your jeweler what the proper care is for your stone(s). A toothbrush is a good tool for a
light gentle cleaning under the center stone and around the setting. Very mild dish
soap is what I use. Rinse well.
3.
Remove
when doing yard work or other hand work - Ladies, most of us wear our
diamonds every day not matter what we are doing. We do house cleaning, yard
work, as well as many other things. We risk bumping or harming our engagement
ring during some of these rigorous processes. I know that I always feel weird
without my ring on but I take it off now when doing yard work, scrubbing and
some types of food prep as well. Have the same safe place to put your ring every time
you take it off. When I told one of my friends about my experience, she shared with me that she had lost her center
stone while gardening.
4.
Insurance
– Most homeowner’s or renter’s policies have an extra “rider” you can purchase for jewelry. This
can cover accidentally loss or theft…it depends on the policy. There are also
separate companies who insure just jewelry. I found a really informative
article on TheKnot.com about this subject. I encourage you to read it. http://wedding.theknot.com/getting-engaged/engagement-rings/articles/engagement-ring-insurance-101.aspx?MsdVisit=1
I hope my experience will end your procrastination to have
your precious ring checked twice a year. See my ring below all fixed.
Ladies, don’t let my experience happen to you. I found my
stone and was very fortunate. Make the
appointment to maintain your engagement ring so YOU don’t ever lose YOUR bling.
No comments:
Post a Comment